-I have been attending church since 9 months before I entered the world! Some of the best theology I learned by attending Sunday School:
A.W. Tozer: what is the deepest theological truth you’ve learned:
Jesus loves me this I know, for the Bible tells me so
Or another favorite: Jesus loves the little children, all the children of the world
-What does that mean?
READ/PRAY (pg. 493)
- In Marriage (1-12)
-Jesus’ ministry area is moving (Many scholars believe he ends up in Perea)
-What is Jesus’ custom? Teaching! Don’t miss this! Jesus comes to teach us a new way to live, a new way to think, a new way to operate.
-Who continues serving as the bad guys to Jesus’ ministry and story? The Pharisees! Those tasked with helping people understand and apply God’s law to their everyday lives.
-Have you ever thought about the Bible in that way? How to apply God’s law to your life. At the end of the day, that’s why we gather as the church! To know, understand, and live out the truths God has given to us in His Word. Not a bad pursuit that this Pharisees are pursuing! The problem is the way they use God’s Word to build up themselves and their own pursuit of power instead of using it in service of others.
-What question do they have this time? What is their motivation?
-Just as today, marriage, divorce, and remarriage were hotly debated topics!
-2 schools of thought in the Pharisees: Shammai only allowed divorce due to adultery, Hillel allows divorce for almost any reason (like burning a meal)
-This is most likely where the location of this confrontation matters. Perea was under the jurisdiction of Herod Antipas. Does anyone remember that name? He’s the one who had John the Baptist beheaded! Does anyone remember why Herod (and Herodias) were upset with John? John said they were committing adultery by their relationship. Do you think maybe the Pharisees were hoping Herod would take care of their Jesus problem?
-What does Jesus appeal to as His authority? The Bible! Friends, don’t miss this! We can appeal to other truths, ideas to get to the truth, but understand that our ultimate, highest source of truth must be the Bible, otherwise we’re cutting ourselves down, and dismissing how Jesus commanded us to live.
-Notice the language shift here: command vs. allowed. They’re referring to Deut. 24:1. It’s a good start for them, as they’re at least appealing to the same authority as Jesus. And notice that Jesus redirects from what God permits to what God commands.
-But then Jesus goes on from there and gives us a lesson in biblical interpretation: Jesus corrects their interpretation, beginning with His own authority! Doesn’t appeal to a specific text right away, but gives some more background to why Moses allowed divorce. Because why? Hardness of heart. We’ve seen that a few times in this Gospel, and it appears repeatedly throughout the OT, and it refers to resistance to God. All of us have areas in our lives where we are hard hearted and not living as God would want us to live.
-This is part of the reason we need to be in community with other believers, as well as connect other believers throughout history and in other cultures, because all of us have areas of blindness that we need others to point out in our lives. Does anyone remember the time you realized there was something slightly weird about your nuclear family? Remember hearing an old story about a ham that a family made. Each year for Christmas, the sides of the ham were cut off, losing almost 1/3 of the meat. One year, the husband finally decided to ask his wife why she didn’t just get a small cut of ham, which led to “this is how my mom taught me to cook ham.” They called her mom who said that’s how her mom taught her to cook ham, so they went to grandma. Turns out grandma cut the ends off so the ham would fit in the roaster she had, meaning for years the rest of the family had been throwing pounds of delicious ham away!
-I remember going to school and realizing that it was weird that my parents were still married. Or getting married and realizing that your spouse’s family ate different foods than you did growing up. We all come to this realization at some point, the question is: what do you do when you realize it? When we realize our lives are out of line with what Jesus wants for us, are you going to change, or do you try to change what Jesus is saying?
-We saw this last week too, with Jesus’ command to fight against your indwelling sin (cut off your hand, foot, or eye)
-Where does Jesus then take the conversation? To God’s original design for human relationships.
-God’s intention was for male and female to be united in marriage, growing up together and becoming one flesh (sharing everything, including sexual intimacy). There are a whole host of directions we can take this and apply it to contemporary issues, but before your mind jumps there, let’s finish the rest of these verses to get the rest of the context of what Jesus is saying. Where the Pharisees jump right to the last of Moses’ books, Jesus goes back even further to Genesis 1 and 2, that is: life before sin entered the world. This one flesh idea is significant because it means it can’t be dissolved! On top of that, marriage is done before God (God joins them together). If God has joined something together, how could humans tear it apart?
-Then Jesus gives a pretty strong statement that went even further than the most conservative Pharisee was willing to go! No one expected that answer! Which is why the disciples ask Jesus about it.
-Jesus becomes even more explicit: divorce should not happen from either person, and if it does it is adultery. Jesus elevates the status of women here. In the 1st cent. Only men were allowed to issue certificates of divorce, here Jesus is aware that women can pursue divorce too, which is also wrong.
-What do we do with this text?
-We recognize that God designed marriage to be a permanent, lifelong bond that at some point will be completed (no marriage in heaven)
-At the same time, we recognize that sin has affected every relationship on earth, including marriage relationships. We also need to ensure we bring all the relevant passages to this topic before we make a statement on what should take place. For example, Jesus in Matt. 5:32 says “Everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immortality.” So there are situations where divorce and remarriage is permittable, according to Jesus. This leads to the question: what situations are there were divorce or divorce and remarriage are acceptable? Paul gives desertion as another option in 1 Cor. 7, which I would argues includes spousal abuse (more to come in Sermon Scraps tomorrow)
-Divorce isn’t something to use a threat. Divorce isn’t something to joke about. Divorce shouldn’t even be the second, third, fourth, or hundredth option for a marriage. That being said, there are legitimate times where all other options have been exhausted because we live in a broken world where divorce will happen. Run to the Jesus in the midst of that. Run to the church in the midst of that. For a while, divorce was seen as the unforgiveable sin in the church, thankfully that’s not true!
-One other note to this: common to say that Jesus didn’t ever talk about same sex marriage or transgender ideas, which is only true in a very narrow sense of that idea. Those ideas weren’t debated in the first century! And Jesus appeals to God’s original design, not what life looks like on this side of the fall (which is what we as Christians are meant to be aiming for: new life here and now!)
-One of the primary things that is meant to set Christians apart is their marriages! Tertullian (155-220 AD): “We do not hesitate to share our earthly goods with one another. All things are common among us but our wives.”
-Friends, if you’re married prioritize your marriage so our marriages can serve as the picture of Jesus and the church that they’re supposed to be.
- In Trust (13-27)
-Picks up a theme from last week where Jesus used a child as an example of who His followers should receive. Apparently the disciples didn’t take it to heart (remaining hard hearted). Remember, little children weren’t worthy of any attention.
-Mark describes Jesus as indignant, as angry toward them! Mark seems to communicate Jesus’ emotions more than the other Gospels. But notice what it is that makes Him angry: lack of concern for “the least of these” (Matt. 25:45)
-Brings up the point: when can someone trust in Jesus as their Savior? He says His kingdom belongs to children! One of the things I pray for my kids is that they have a “boring” testimony. That they can’t imagine a day where they didn’t know, love, trust, and follow Jesus. My kids have shared with some of you that they trust Jesus, and I hope that’s true!
-What does it mean to receive the kingdom of God “like a child”? What can children do on their own? Nothing! Similarly, unless we come to God with nothing, we won’t receive His kingdom.
-Significance of Jesus laying hands on, and blessing children, where we have dedication.
-A picture of how someone needs to be childlike to enter the kingdom comes about from a rich young ruler. Notice how he approaches Jesus: running, kneeling, almost as if he’s desperate to get his question answered. Even acknowledges Jesus as “Good teacher.”
-Jesus (as always) redirects the conversation: why do you call me good?
-This isn’t a humble brag! This is Jesus reminding the man who He is: not just a teacher, but God who is worth giving everything up to follow.
-Jesus brings attention to the second half of the 10 commandments (first 4 are geared toward relationship with Him, last 6 are geared toward relationship with others)
-The man has been obedient since he would be held liable (13). Jesus doesn’t correct him or rebuke him, instead it says Jesus looks and loves.
-Loving enough to not leave the man in his independent state. If you love someone you will want what’s best for them, not letting them continue on in sin.
-This man had put his trust in material wealth. He had “great possessions,” which is why Jesus points out this deficiency in his life. This isn’t a command for all believers at all times (we see throughout the book of Acts that people in the early church share willingly with each other, but it was willingly, and no one gave up all their earthly possessions) Therefore, we don’t believe in poverty theology or prosperity theology
-This becomes another teaching opportunity for His disciples, as He tells them that unlike the children He had welcomed before, those who are wealthy struggle to put their whole trust and confidence in Jesus.
-Disciples were amazed for the same reason we would be: there’s a tendency to view material wealth as being blessed by God. Or to view money as the solution to all our problems. However, The Notorious BIG said it correctly when he said “Mo money mo problems.” It is more difficult for someone who has wealth on this side of heaven to realize that as we sing “Nothing in my hands I bring, simply to the cross I cling.” Jonathan Edwards: “You contribute nothing to your salvation except the sin that made it necessary.” Do you realize that? Nothing! You need to come like a child!
-How easy is this? Not! It’s easier to thread a camel through a needle. How easy would that be? Camels were the biggest animal in this area of the world, needle was the smallest hole available. CS Lewis summarized this absurdity well:
-This blew the disciples minds even more! If even those that they viewed as blessed by God couldn’t be saved, who can?
-Yet another reminder that we are needy people! We are all dependent on God’s grace, we need His mercy extended to us day by day (which is why it’s a miracle that his mercies are new every morning). If it were only up to us, no one could be saved! Thankfully, God isn’t limited like we are, so because of God at work in us, there’s hope for us to be saved!
- Sacrificially (28-31)
-But this causes the disciples to think about their situation. They’d left boats, jobs, families (as Peter says “everything”) in order to follow Jesus. Can they be saved?
-Not only will they be saved, but they’ll get back even before heaven 100x what they gave up! And they’ll also get persecutions. But how will this come about? By being brought into a new family!
-This gets us to a promise God made to Abraham in Gen. 15 where God said Abraham’s decedents would outnumber the stars. That promise comes true in the church today! As does the blessing of being brought into this new family where we have houses all over the world (story I was told last week of someone in their 20s going to South Korea), we have a new family, we aren’t stuck in 1 place.
-On top of the blessings here and now comes eternal life. Connects back to last week: what are willing to live without now to be blessed forever in heaven. When you do the math it literally makes no sense to put all your hope and confidence in the here and now when you can’t take it with you! But there are some things that will be with you in heaven: friendships, love, Jesus, rewards for faithful service, rewards for generous living. Why would you give up rewards in eternity (will never end) for 80 years of pleasure now? Compare 80 to eternity, not worth it!
-God’s kingdom is the upside down kingdom compared to worldly desires. We are called to live differently than the world does. We’re supposed to spend our money differently. We’re supposed to be citizens differently. We’re supposed to have different marriages. We’re supposed to have different priorities in our lives (like gathering together on Sunday instead of sleeping in!). We’re supposed to live supernatural lives that are radically different than the world around us wants us to live. We’re supposed to be like Jesus to those we come into contact with!
-Because “Jesus loves me, this I know, for the Bible tells us so” we can trust in Him, we can be obedient to Him, and we can know that He is working in us to draw us to Himself.